In the book of Matthew Jesus said, “follow me”. Jesus was the leader. Any time we see a leader we should also realize there is much involvement by those he leads to establish him as the leader. For example, as "the leader" he dined at Matthew’s house. While at Matthew’s house there must have been involvement of Matthew, his wife, his food, his servants, his table, his plates, etc. There would not have been a meal at Matthew’s house without a Matthew and the work and provision of the others.
We would prefer to take a back seat and let the leader do all the work. It is as if he were driving the car and we are the passengers. He does the driving, spending his gas and wearing out his tires. When Jesus is leading should it not be, he is like the foreman and we are like the ditch diggers? We should be getting sweaty, and sore. He tells us where, what direction, and how deep to dig from the ditch. We like to be ministered to but sometimes grudge the ministry tasks.
The centurion came to Jesus and was known for his great faith. This shows that gentiles have their place in the Kingdom of God. They will feast with Abraham and Jacob. Our place with God depends on our faith and commitment, not upon our people-group or status.
Someone said I will follow you wherever you go. Jesus said, "Foxes have holes and birds of the air have nests, but the son of man does not have any place to lay his head." Jesus did not have a hole or a nest to sleep in. Lesser created beings, like birds and foxes, have “homes”, dwellings; but not the son of man. We should not over-worry about our physical sustenance. There is a cost and a giving up of some physical elements that must occur when we follow Jesus.
We say, “I will follow you first “but”. You say you will, but you must disengage yourself from entanglement of the world. Do not worry over the tangled affairs the world makes for itself. There are some elements of the world expected of us by the world that we must disengage ourselves from when we follow Jesus.