Proverbs 15 verse 10: “Correction is grievous to him that forsaketh the way . . .” This can mean more than: the man does not feel comfortable with the correction. The man has gone outside of “the way”. He is either resolute about it and determined to precede in the wrong way, or he is repentant that he has gone wrong.
The resolute one resents the correction and resists it. It is irritating to him and he fights against the correction as one more element of struggle in his life. He does not consider, or does not care, that he has gone against God’s wishes. It is inconvenient, he does not want it, and he fights it.
The repentant one is sorry for his wrong way. He knows he has done wrong and accepts it. The trial is grievous for him because he caused it. It not only renders him hardship, but he knows it is also troubling to the Lord.
Or he may view the correction as a justified trial. It may be a sort of "pop quiz", an occasion to test his character or resolve. It is an opportunity to discover his weaknesses so he can see the need of improvement and attempt to modify his thinking or behavior.
For both correction is an unpleasant task to manage.
