Proverbs 27:1-6
Open rebuke is better than secret love. It is better to know where you stand, to know how someone feels than to not know it - even if that feeling is against you. However, unexpressed love is as if there was no love at all because there are no words or actions to demonstrate the love. But while there the words that come from a friend are faithful because they are intended for good; the kisses from the enemy are deceitful .because they are intended to disguise ill wishes.
"A stone is heavy, but a fool’s wrath is heavier". It is difficult and bothersome to carry around the oppression that comes from another. Wrath is difficult but envy is more dangerous. Who can stand against it - one can defend against wrath; you cannot defend against envy. Wrath you can answer with evidence and logic. Wrath has been expressed by words and actions. There is no evidence or logic in the expression of envy. It has to do with the inward personal state of the one who envies, rather than anything you did. How can you control what is in the mind of another?
