(PROV 23:35)
The problem with alcoholism – or any compulsive drive – is: "When shall I awake, I shall seek it yet again." The drunkard is not saying, "The purpose in my heart is that I will seek drunkenness again because I like it." (Although he may think that from time to time). He may really be saying, "When I awake from this time of drunkenness, will be ashamed again. I will not want to do it again, but I am afraid that I will, as I have done this time." This is likely true because he knows from experience he has been beaten and laying on "top of masts" (V34) as the Bible says. He has a history of it, he is suffering yet another time of regret.
There are many who have done things they should not have done. Many do not want to do it again. Drunks, who know they are drunks, do not generally want to be drunks. The warning at the front of all this is verse 31: "Look not upon the wine when is red, when it gives his color in the cup, when it moveth itself alright". Do not be in a place where you can look. You must stop at the beginning, before the first look, let alone the first drink, before drinking is even the issue. Or before the first pornographic link on the internet. Or before the first bit of gossip is passed on.
All compulsive issues are related. Stop. Keep to the right path before stepping onto the wrong one and turning back from it is too difficult. It would help when temptation nears to talk to yourself - out loud: “This is a good thing to do, this other thing is harmful for me.” Proverbs 5:8 says, “Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house:” Step 1: "remove your way" (don’t take that path) because step 2, being "near the door of her house", makes staying away harder to achieve.
